The Pros and Cons of First Looks
Should You Do a First Look on Your Wedding Day?
Hey there, Detroit Area couples! Jodi and Bryan, wedding photographers based in the Motor City, and we often get asked about first looks. If you’re planning your big day and weighing whether to see each other before the ceremony, you’re in the right place. We like first looks, assuming the schedule allows, because it gives us a chance to capture you in your splendor before the rush and unfogiving scheduel of a wedding day hits. However, sometimes it's just not the right choice for your day. Let’s break down the pros and cons of doing a first look so you can decide what’s best for you.
Pros of a First Look:
A Private Moment Just for You Two: Imagine having a sweet, intimate moment with your partner before the whirlwind of the ceremony begins. A first look allows you to share this special time away from all the guests, creating a beautiful, private experience just for the two of you.
Less Stress, More Joy: Seeing each other before the ceremony can help keep you calm through the ceremony. By the time you walk down the aisle, you’ll be more relaxed and ready to enjoy every moment.
More Time for Photos: One of the biggest benefits of a first look is the extra time it gives you for photos. You can capture gorgeous portraits and candid moments before the ceremony, which means you can spend more time celebrating at the reception!
Flexible Timeline: Having your photos done beforehand the ceremony will give you a more relaxed schedule. You won’t feel rushed after the ceremony, which means more time to enjoy your big day with friends and family. Want to greet the guests as they exit the ceremony or try that cocktail you picked for cocktail hour? Getting group photos done before the ceremony can allow you more time for fun.
Full Focus on the Ceremony: With photos already taken care of, you and your guests can fully immerse yourselves in the ceremony. No more stressing about whether you’re missing out on photo ops!
Cons of a First Look:
Missing the Traditional Moment: The tradition of seeing each other for the first time as you walk down the aisle is one of the most magical parts of the wedding day. If this is something you’ve been dreaming about, a first look might not give you the same feeling. There are also superstitions surrounding seeing the bride before the ceremony, so if you're supersititous you may want to skip a first look.
You will need to get ready earlier: Coordinating a first look means adding another layer to your wedding day timeline. You will want to be fully dressed when your partner sees you for the first time. It requires careful planning to ensure everything goes smoothly, which might feel a bit overwhelming.
Losing the Surprise Element: Part of the excitement of the ceremony is that first, tear-filled glance as you walk towards each other. With a first look, that surprise is gone, which might be a letdown for some couples.
Potential for More Stress: While a first look can reduce stress for some, it might add to the complexity of your day. It’s all about finding the right balance that works for you.
Different Reactions: Everyone’s reactions to a first look can vary. What might be perfect for one couple might not feel right for another. It’s all about what makes you happiest.
So, whether you’re leaning towards a first look or sticking with the traditional approach, the key is to choose what feels best for you. At the end of the day you're still going to end up married either way. Every wedding is unique, and your experience should reflect your personal style and preferences. If you have any questions or need help planning your day, feel free to reach out. Happy planning, and we can’t wait to capture your love story!
